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NATHAN DANIEL HAGLER JULY 7, 1985 JUNE 6, 1999 |
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Nathan was one of the last people I ever expected
to die. I grew up with him, his older sister is a close friend. He became
one too. Next month he would have turned 14. Too young to die. I have rarely
seen him without a smile on his face. The class clown. The last time I
saw him I was subbing for mom in the high school class, and he put a tack
in another boy's seat. He always made you smile, often made you laugh and
occasionally you had an urge to strangle him. But somehow, you never could.
He was just too adorable to kill. Light brown hair, blue eyes, and the
biggest dimples you've ever seen. He was small, but had started his growth
spurt. We expected him to pass 6 ft...and we didn't mean of dirt... He
was called to be a preacher, he had a passion for God that put the rest
of us to shame. He would have been a powerful preacher, somehow I think
the devil knew that. That's why he chose Nathan. But while Satan could
harm him, nothing could kill him. God has him now, and Satan can never
touch him again. That is some comfort to those of us who grieve. I grieve
for a man's life never lived, a wife never loved, children never born,
a sermon never preached, and a smile that never stopped until now. I grieve
for his lost radiance, the presence you felt as he bounced into the room,
the all that he gave in playing, in winning, and I grieve knowing the joy
he gave others can now only be brought by fond memories. I grieve for his
family, his parents who have already had struggles this year, an older
sister who loved him, a younger sister who looked up to him, and
an aunt who doted on him, who has already lost a daughter and now has lost
a beloved nephew. I grieve for his friends, in the youth group and all
over the church. Everyone knew him, everyone loved him. His smile was the
bright spot in many people's day. His friends will miss him terribly, as
they struggle to deal with a death that hits home. A death that never should
have happened. Lastly, I grieve for myself, that I will never be able to
look at him when he is great and say to others "I knew him. I saw
him grow into manhood and I am proud of him." But I am proud of him now.
Proud of who he was, and how he was never ashamed of it. Proud that I knew
him, if only for 13 years. Though his death is certainly not of great impact
in the scheme of the world, it is of great impact in my life and in the
lives of others. We love him, I love him and I shall never ever forget
the young man with the dimples and big grin who taught me how to laugh
when I fall, give life my all and never be ashamed of who I am. To you,
my friends, I ask that you pray, that we may be comforted by these memories,
strengthened by the knowledge that he is with the Savior he would have
given his life to serve. Grieve for us, grieve with me as you read this
portrait of a young man who will never have the chance to
grow up. Thank you my friends, I love you.
Abbi
Dear, Sweet Nathan,
I know it wasn't you in that casket; and I know you won't return to us-but that we will go to be where you are one day. It is my hope, however, that perhaps the Lord Himself, or a messenger angel, will convey these words I write to you.
THANK YOU, Nathan. Thank you for being a true friend to our son when an accepting, funny, kind friend was the thing he needed most in this world. Thank you for coming over and sharing our table, and your wonderful spirit with us....for including even we adults in your world. You have been that rare youth that could open himself up to, look square in the eye of , and hold a real conversation with an adult...and laugh at the same time. You never forgot that all people are people...I never saw you treat anyone without friendliness. You have been a rare and wonderful jewel in our lives, and I know the angels are rejoicing to have the privilege to dote on you right now! I love you, Nathan. I can't imagine that anyone could not. What joy you brought into all of our lives!
Everybody here is gonna be okay. You have such a giant family in the Body of Christ! We'll look after your family-Jesus is keeping them so well right now...I know you already know that...you're privy to such information these days, aren't you? Hey, did Jesus let you peek in on Nancy and see how great she was during the viewing? Did you see how the youth group rallied together and came to terms with your leaving us? Did you see the transformation in them from the beginning of that evening to the end of it? Nathan, I got a better view of God's grace that night, and I will never be the same. Did you get to see the people who turned their lives over to Jesus yesterday? How your favorite youth evangelist spoke the words so many already had in their hearts...it was really YOU preaching to us, urging folks to hand it all over to Jesus...and Nathan...did you see how they LISTENED?! Wasn't it just wonderful?! Incredible?! ...Just what you wanted?! Did you hear us as we sang one of your favorite songs at the very, very end...."Dancin' in the Joy"? I could see you, then...dancing with the angels...rejoicing with them and those others who've gone on before us. And our sorrow was turned to joy, Nathan. Our weeping, our mourning, gave way to elation. This truly was not for naught. "Oh, death, where is thy sting?"
Surely, we will cry again for the place in our hearts that aches to be with you. We cannot fully understand this loss with our puny little human minds. But we trust Jesus and our Father's love and righteousness. We know He has the BIG picture, and we're happy to leave it in His hands. I know you're happy, and I'm so happy for you. It's sorta like our Jamie getting married and moving to Canada. I'm so thrilled she has someone who loves her and that she loves deeply, too. I'm really ecstatic. But that doesn't mean I won't hurt terribly when she leaves....miss her immensely....and that's how it is for all of us with you.
I can hardly wait to see you again, Nathan. We'll all be dancin' in the joy together again very, very soon, won't we?
-Love you forever,
-"Mrs." Cindy
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Nathan's Rose
(A living memorial to the son of precious friends.)
Like the Snow Owl rose we plant in his memory, Nathan Daniel Hagler
was:
Pure... the whiteness of the rose is symbolic of this.
Rare... because his beauty coupled with his other characteristics
isn't often found in a single package.
Rugged...Blooming in Christ even when worldly conditions weren't
always perfect.
Compact...Joy and Life so densely packed within...
Intensely
Fragrant...with an aroma pleasing to both God and man.
Surely our Lord must have said similar words
to these as He opened the gates of Heaven to our smiling friend:
"Welcome, my good and faithful servant; in you I have been well-pleased."
(Contributed by the Church
of God Marriage Encounters Sunday School class.)
Dear Friends
As I sat the other day, just thinking of Nathan, alot of things came
to mind. I remember meeting Nathan last summer when he and some other people
from the Church of God came over to Tangier to visit. I took them into
the church to just look around and it was when I really noticed that Nathan
was there. I really didn't talk to him but I could see something special
in him.When I moved to the Shore and began looking for a church that would
help me grow, I came to the Church of God. As I walked through the doors
that first time and saw all the youth, I felt so out of place. Maybe because
I was older or different. But, he was the first youth to come up to me
and say something. He was such a friendly person, I really do not consider
him to be a boy, he was just a growing man of God. You could just look
in his eyes and see the love of God working in him. He was truly a blessing
to my soul as well as to alot of others in the church. I really wish I
could have gotten to know him better but his smiling face will always be
planted in my mind. I will always just try to be like him and let the love
and joy of Jesus flow through me by actions and words as Nathan did, I
will not understand why this happened and probably never will, but I look
forward to the day that I go to heaven and see his smiling face waiting
for us all to come and hug him. That, my friends is something that I will
look forward to and will continue to look forward to as long as I am on
this earth. I just pray that people, young and old, will learn to be like
Nathan, not to be shy but to just go out and let the love and joy of Jesus
flow through you like the air you breathe does. To the family and friends
of Nathan, I am praying for you daily as well as alot of other people and
we will continue to pray for you for as long as you need us. Please. if
there is something that I can do, please contact me. The pastor knows how
to contact me. God bless you all!!!!!
Yours in Christ,
From "Hearts" Birch
My brother in Christ,my preacher,teacher,counseler,and mentor in hard
times,and my best friend.Even though he was younger than me I looked up
to him in so many ways.He knew that God would use him in a great and mighty
way and he knew that God had a great future planned for him,but what he
didn't know is what came so quickly.He was used in a great and mighty way,but
none of us realized it until the day we said "goodbye".He is the youngest
person I know to preach a sermon and win thirty or more souls for the Lord,and
now he has his reward.He is surfing the clouds and riding waverunners in
the Crystal Sea waiting for his friends and loved ones to come join him
in Glory.His name is Nathan Daniel Hagler.
This is for you. Rememeber we were at the talent show? It was me you
and Keith. Nathan like everyone says I will never forget your smile. I
know there was an angel there watching you and helping you all the way!
I love you no matter what! Soon we will all be there!
I pray for you every night!
Love always, Amanda Daisey
I went to preschool with Nathan and Jessica. Nay,Jessie,and Ray we
were. Nathan was the biggest clown. He liked Jessica and Jessica was my
best friend. Thus we liked to play together. When I think of Little Rev.
Nay I remember the outgoing smile and personality he always had to offer.
I still remember being in children's church that year I was a little less
then 7,I had recently returned from Ohio I had lived there 2 years,and
I was so shy I wouldn't say my name to the teacher. And Nathan sat by me
and said "come on,tell your name,you can say your name,come on
Rachel..well I sort of gave it away but say it anyway!" With his smile
of course I quietly said "my name is Rachel,but I'd like to be known as
Renee." Nathan was already with a few words,a smile,a funny thing. He always
could make me laugh and you always had to return his smile. When I stop
and think about it,he helped me more then all the rest by being my example.
I still am that quiet mouse but shyness,oh,its gone,church or youth group
not a problem anymore. As I sit on January 28th,2000. I think he'd like
how much I'm trying to be more interactive with others. I'm sorry he missed
turning 14,I'll be older then him soon. I'm sorry he didn't see y2k disappointing
thousands. My sister Abbi has a gift for
words but i just have some memories. Please,understand the boy that
helped me so,I never told him just how much he was loved and appreciated.
When that day comes that i shall go to Jesus,I'll see Nay and say,boy,I
love you so. Rachel
It has taken me a long time to be able to sit here and write about
Nay Nay. I have known him all of his life. I have had a close bond with
his family. They were a big help to me struggling through my drug addiction.
My son, Robbie, had become a close friend to Nathan. He was Robbie's protector.
They always found something to get into. Whether it be a fort in the woods
or climbing on the roof of his house. He was always so gentle and loved
his whole family with all of his heart. He always took things in stride
and kept believing the best of everything. I have seen his family be so
strong during this time. I don't know if I could have handled it as well
as they did. I love them with all my heart. I love the faith that they
have kept when others turned and walked away. My husband was honored to
speak at the "graduation" ceremony. As soon as I called him that awful
night, he asked what he could do and drove 12 hours straight to get home
from New Hampshire where he was preaching revival to be here for the family.
David always called him "knuckle head". Nathan was such a vibrant person,
plucked from this world but not from His heavenly Father or from our hearts.
So many people came to hear Nathan preach his first sermon. So many people
heard the voice of the Lord and chose to follow Him; people that would
have never come to church.
When Scottie got up to preach, I thought the whole place was shaking.
He spoke with authority and power. He spoke with the inspiration of the
Holy Spirit. Not one person was left in that church unsaved. And to know
that we have that power living inside of us, what a day that will be when
Nathan receives his crown and gets a standing ovation from all of the angels
and Jesus Christ for the best sermon a man had ever preached; and believe
me, I have heard many preachers but they are going to have a hard time
topping Nathan's sermon.
So, if I could say anything to Nathan, it would be, "Well done, God's
faithful servant, because you were faithful over a few things, He is making
you ruler of many". Until we meet again, Nay.
God Bless.
Loretta Reed
WHY WE HAVE TO SUFFER
BROKEN AND SPILLED OUT, HUMBLED AND RESTORED.
A TRUE WALK OF FAITH, TO BE LED MY THE LORD.
HUMAN EYES CAN'T REALLY SEE,NOR CAN THEIR EARS HEAR.
THAT TRUE REPENTENCE AND RECONCILIATION MUST FLOW, THROUGH OUR TEARS.
WITH WEEPING AND WAILING LET OUR HEARTS CRY OUT,
REVEALING OUR PAIN , AND RELEASING OUR DOUBT.
GOD IS GRIEVING THROUGH US,NOW BEING REVEALED
THROUGH SO MANY WOUNDS THAT STILL AREN'T HEALED.
SO LOOK TO "HIS " HANDS , THE SCARS YOU'LL SEE
THAT WAS THEN I REALIZED , HIS PAIN IS IN ME.
THROUGH LOVE AND COMPASSION, HE MINISTERED TO "ALL"
NOW THE "CHURCH" MUST CONTINUE THE CALL.
TO WALK IN "HIS " ANNOINTING, AS A REPAIRER OF THE BREECH
IN WHICH WE ARE TO DWELL,RESTORING "HIS ' STREETS.
(THIS POEM WAS WRITTEN BY:BARBARA HAGLER,JAN, 21,2000)
(SCRIPTURE REFERENCE:ISAIAH 58)
( INSPIRED BY GOD)
IN HONOR OF :"REV"'. NATHAN DANIEL HAGLER, HER SON
HIS LEGACY OF SERVING GOD WILL LIVE ON......
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